Men’s Addiction Coaching

A structured pathway toward sobriety, integrity, and lasting change.

This is coaching for men who are ready to move beyond white-knuckling. We work both dimensions of recovery: finding and sustaining sobriety and storywork / inner-child work to understand what drives the cycle.

Deterministic structure (no guesswork)

Trauma-informed, shame-resistant

Faith-integrated without bypassing

Schedule a Discovery Call What coaching looks like

If you’re in crisis or need urgent support, please contact local emergency services or a licensed provider in your area.

What this coaching is—and is not

This is not accountability-only support and it’s not a quick fix. It’s a structured coaching relationship built around a recovery framework that integrates sobriety practices, storywork, nervous-system regulation, and a Christ-centered vision of restoration.

You will leave sessions with clarity. We identify what is happening in your internal world, what is fueling the cycle, and what your next faithful step is—without shame, pressure, or performance.

This is a strong fit if you:

Are tired of cycling between effort and relapse
Want more than surface-level behavior management
Are open to exploring your story with honesty
Desire sobriety and emotional integrity
Can commit to consistent practice between sessions

This may not be a fit if you’re seeking minimal engagement, secrecy, or a “check-the-box” approach.

Freedom is learned. Healing is practiced. You are not alone.

The two dimensions of recovery

Most men get stuck because they focus on only one side of the equation. Sustainable recovery requires both:

Finding and sustaining sobriety

Clear structure, interruption skills, and rhythms that stabilize your life.

Storywork and inner-child work

Understanding what your behavior has been doing for you—so it no longer has to.

We will not shame the behavior—and we will not excuse it. We will make sense of it, build capacity, and practice a new way of living.

Sobriety is not “just stopping.”

Sobriety becomes stable when it is supported by structure, support, and regulation. In coaching we work:

Trigger mapping and cycle awareness
Realistic boundaries and relapse interruption
Shame resilience and identity re-grounding
Nervous-system skills (regulation, co-regulation, slowing down)
Weekly practice plan you can actually keep

Inner-child work is not “navel-gazing.”

It’s learning why certain emotions, needs, or moments feel unbearable—and what younger parts of you learned to do to survive. When the story is understood, the compulsion loses power.

Clarity over confusion. Curiosity over contempt. Presence over performance.

What sessions look like

Sessions are structured but deeply human. We move at a pace that keeps you honest without flooding you.

A typical session includes:

Grounding + awareness of your current state
Review of sobriety, triggers, and emotional load
Identifying the internal dynamic driving the moment
Targeted inner work (storywork / parts work / child work)
Concrete next steps and a weekly practice plan

The goal is not “trying harder.”

The goal is becoming the kind of man who can stay present to pain, needs, stress, and longing—without escaping. That is the deeper work of recovery.

If you are also engaged in community recovery work (groups, intensives, counseling), coaching can help you integrate it and stay consistent.

Structure that holds you. A story that makes sense. A path you can walk.

Common questions

A few clarifiers to help you discern fit and expectations.

Coaching is not psychotherapy and does not replace clinical care. It is structured guidance, support, and skill-building. If deeper trauma processing or clinical treatment is needed, I will recommend appropriate referrals.

You’re not disqualified. We stabilize first: interruption skills, cycle mapping, support structures, and shame-resistance—then we move into the deeper “why” beneath the cycle.

Yes—without weaponizing Scripture or bypassing pain. The posture is invitational, grounded, and honest: grace that leads to responsibility, not hiding.

Schedule a discovery call. We’ll clarify your goals, current patterns, and what support you need. You’ll receive a clear recommendation for next steps.

Next step: a Discovery Call

If you’re ready to explore this pathway, schedule a discovery call. You’ll get clarity—no pressure—about what support makes the most sense for your season.

Schedule a Discovery Call Apply / Next Steps

Coaching is not a substitute for licensed mental health treatment. If you are experiencing active crisis, suicidal thoughts, or are in danger, contact local emergency services immediately.

What you can expect after you book

A brief intake and clarity on your goals
A recommended cadence (weekly / bi-weekly)
A sober-minded plan you can practice immediately
A pathway for storywork/inner work integration

If you’re also in a group or working with a counselor/CSAT, coaching can help you integrate the work and stay consistent.